I’m a runner, albeit not always a happy one. Sometimes my miles are a slog. Usually they’re something for me to tick off my to-do list. In the back of my mind, I thought it odd that I didn’t look on running with the same joy that possessed me as a child. I chalked it up to my body changing from wiry childhood to lumpy adulthood. Lately, I’ve wondered if it has more to do with the reasons why I run now versus the reasons I used to run. As a child, I ran to have fun. As an adult, I run to stay in shape, a reason about as far away from fun as possible.

Through the dice toss that is Amazon.com’s “books you might like,” I discovered Born to Run by Chris McDougall. Besides the excellent writing, McDougall tells an amazing story about the Tarahumara, a tribe living in the wilds of Mexico’s Copper Canyon area. While the book weaves together several stories about ultra running and the Tarahumara, the underlying thesis is that humans are born to run, that our bodies can take pleasure from moving fast. Miles weren’t meant to be slogged through, but reveled in.

Prior to reading Born to Run, I’d read a few review that said, “I’ll be surprised if you don’t want to get up and run after reading this book.” Slightly skeptical, because I’ve believed forever that some people are “runners” and the rest of us aren’t. I started to read.

I finished the book this morning, and the reviews were right: I wanted to run to experience the same pleasure McDougall described. This book is a reminder that running needn’t be about namebrand apparel, corporate sponsorships, and fame. Running can be for the sheer pleasure of experiencing a finely built machine doing what it’s designed to do.

How many things in our lives fit this definition? How many things that we did for pleasure have turned into work? Think about how we eat.

We’ve gone from sitting down to a meal, perhaps with the accompanient of conversation, to eating fast food in our cars. We define this practice as “convenient,” but we’ve turned a pleasure into a task to check of the list.

Exercise of any sort is all too often slotted into categories of physicial appearance. We don’t play anymore, we cardio. We don’t laugh from breathlessness, we huff with boredom. What are we becoming?

What if, instead of advocating health care for everyone, we advocated healthy living for everyone? What if instead of passing a cap and trade program, we made it easier for people to do things in their community under their own steam?

While technology in its many shapes and sizes has helped make life amazing in many ways, I think we often overlook simple solutions in favor of the complicated. We need to examine the motivations that our driving our actions with more care. Too much of what we do happens on autopilot. Sometimes that’s all we can manage, but it shouldn’t become the driving force behind our lives.

As I try to change my perspective about running, and even the way I run, I still may wake up some mornings with little desire to step foot outside. However, I do know that running has become less about the mileage, the time, and the scale and more about how I feel while I’m doing it.

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Who Are We Really Mourning?

by Britt on June 26, 2009

The seemingly global angst surrounding the death of Michael Jackson has me thinking: what are we really mourning? I doubt that it’s who he was at the time of his death, but rather, for those of use who remember, who he was when we liked him best.

We’re mourning the guy who introduced the moon walk, Thriller, and wore the title, “King of Pop” with aplomb, not the guy who adopted plastic surgery as a religion, faced charges of child molestation, and dangled a baby over a balcony. We seem to do this with every celebrity.

We mourn the Farrah Fawcett in the red swimsuit, not the Farrah Fawcett who appeared incoherent on David Lettermen. We want our stars, our heroes, to stay strong, to stay happy, to stay admirable. Sadly, they’re all-too-humanness makes them vulnerable to the same ills that plague us all. So when they fall, we push them aside until we’re given the opportunity to place them on the pedestal that death provides.

Even more intriguing, why does it take death for us to celebrate what we perceive as amazing in a person? As of this morning, 12 Jackson songs were sitting in Amazon’s top 25 MP3 downloads. For several songs, it’s the first day they’ve been in the top 100, let alone top 25. Why did we wait until now to celebrate the talent?

Our relationship with celebrity has always been complex. If we’re honest, we can acknowledge that our very fickleness can and has been the undoing of more than one star. As Oscar Wilde put it, “The public is wonderfully tolerant. It forgives everything except genius.

At some point, the deaths of celebrities drop out of the news cycle, and we forget until the next time we’re informed someone from the past is no more. Perhaps stars would prefer more understanding from us now versus our adulation when they’re aren’t around to appreciate it.

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The Highs and Lows of Expectations

06.17.2009

Expectations are tricky things. They invite optimism, giving you something to look forward to. On the flip side, they can lead to disappointment and foster cynicism. When we’re dealing with our expectations for people, the extremes are perhaps the greatest. People have the potential to stun us, for both good and bad.
In my case, I [...]

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Lessons from Running a Race

06.15.2009

Last Saturday, I ran my first race of the season, a half marathon. I tell myself I shouldn’t be surprised, and yet I’m baffled by the people who sign up for a race then refuse to follow the rules. Here are my favorites:

No support teams: Despite the rule, one such car was labeled clearly as [...]

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Choosing Between Two Unattractive Options

06.12.2009

Catching up on the news, I discovered this tidbit in the WSJ (full article behind subscriber wall):
The use of company-issued mobile phones could trigger new federal income taxes on millions of Americans as a “fringe benefit.”
The Internal Revenue Service proposed employers assign 25% of an employee’s annual phone expenses as a taxable benefit. Under that [...]

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Staying Open to Daydreams

06.10.2009

I spend more time daydreaming than I like to admit. Subjects range from the everyday—what an upcoming trip to Seattle will be like—to the absurd—when I win the lottery…
While knowing I’m not the only one to engage in this secret delight, I also feel a trifle sheepish for wasting time thinking about things that are [...]

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Funemployment

06.08.2009

Via Virginia Postrel, I discovered an article in the LA Times about “funemployment:”
While millions of Americans struggle to find work as they face foreclosures and bankruptcy, others have found a silver lining in the economic meltdown. These happily jobless tend to be single and in their 20s and 30s. Some were laid off. Some quit [...]

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Building a World In Your Image

06.05.2009

Do younger generations (Y, Millennial, et. al.) have what it takes to succeed? During the last two weeks, I’ve thought about this question as I’ve ended up in a couple of conversations about my generation (X), and the generations that come after me (Y, Millennials, etc.).
Disclaimer: These conversations took place using generalities. I know not [...]

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Bold Words Refocused

06.02.2009

My silence the last two months isn’t a reflection of not having anything to say. Instead, the last two months have been filled with an internal debate about whether there was value in continuing to share what’s on my mind. To that end, I’ve changed a few things that I hope will improve this blog [...]

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March Madness

03.31.2009

March has proven a crazy month. Between work, travel, and illness, I’ve had little time to write. However, I’ve been doing a lot watching and listening.
I’m baffled.
We seem to have lost our collective minds.
The country was so outraged over bonuses paid to AIG that Congress responded by proposing a 90% tax. Never mind that the [...]

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